Message from Rev. Rita

Dear friends,
The goldenrod and the asters—so beautiful together. Enrolled member of the Potawatomi tribe and biological scientist Robin Wall Kimmerer writes of how the purple and yellow together imprint on our brains, the colors activating the rods and cones in our eyes in ways that persist and resonate. The two colors in a field together attract bees in more abundance than just a single color does. Color has real and lasting effects on the well-being and thriving of humans and the planet alike.
 
The grown world (as opposed to the world that human beings have built) right outside our doors reminds us that we are continuous with it. We, too, are part of the grown world made of the same substances that echo the asters and the goldenrod and the bees. Life unfolding includes us all. For this, I am grateful today. Diana Butler Bass tells us that “Gratitude is resilience of sorts: the defiance of kindness in the face of anger, of connection in the face of division, and of hope in the face of fear. . . . Gratitude empowers us.” For what are you grateful today? How are you allowing gratitude to empower you? Who will you share your gratitude with?

Blessings and warm wishes,
Rev. Rita

Usually Rita plans to be at the Congregation Tuesdays and Wednesdays 10:00 am
to 6:00 pm. Appointments are encouraged. 

Meet our new Interim Minister!

Rev. Dr. Rita Capezzi is an American citizen, a native of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, having moved to Buffalo, New York in 1994 when she was hired as an English professor at Canisius University. After a long and happy career involving teaching, administration, advising, and immersion-learning travel, Rita answered a call to Unitarian Universalist ministry, attending Meadville Lombard Theological School in Chicago, Illinois 2015-2018 and serving the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Mankato, Minnesota 2018-2023. She was ordained in 2018 and reached Full Fellowship with the UUA in 2022.
 
Rita has been married to her spouse, Jeff Lowry, for 42 years and has two children, a son (33) who lives with his partner in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and a daughter (29) who lives with her partner in Buffalo. The family includes six cats across the three households. They all enjoy camping, hiking, and cooking together. Both Rita and Jeff have extended family in the Pittsburgh and Western Pennsylvania area. They are pleased to return to Buffalo and are busy closing on a house and making a home with many close friends nearby. Rita is thrilled to be serving UCM in this interim time of reflection, transition, and possibility.

Celebrating a Life Event?  

We have an exciting new section in our Shining Chalice. All are invited to let our Office Administrator Tisa know if you are celebrating a life event you would like to share with everyone. This could include but not limited to -  birthdays, weddings, anniversaries, school graduations, and births.  Details, such as age, are entirely up to you to include.

Send submissions to Tisa at admin@uucm.ca. Let's all share in our joy!

Festive Fair is November 11 - Mark Your Calendars!

It's the first day of Fall, and UCM is gearing up for the Festive Fair 2023, our biggest event of the year!  We will have Sign-up tables at the side where you can participate in whatever part of the Festive Fair that appeals to you. There are seven sign-up sheets to choose from:
1. Cozy Cafe prep: making sandwiches, soups and treats beforehand.
2. Cozy Cafe staff: selling tickets, taking orders and serving coffee and tea, and set-up and clean-up.
3. Bake Table prep: baking breads, cookies, muffins, holiday treats beforehand.
4. Bake Table staff: packaging treats on Fri. evening, selling goods on Sat.
5. Silent Auction prep: Visiting businesses to gather gift certificates and products. Or offering an unused item from your home or service.
6. Silent Auction staff: supervising the SA tables and following up at the end.
7. Reception and Tickets: Greeting at the door, selling tickets, giving ticket stubs for door prizes, offering free masks.

So many UCM folks participate each year because it's a fun event - Join In!

If you can't attend or forget to sign up, contact any of the following team leaders:
Sarah Nayani, Cozy Cafe: sarahnayani@gmail.com
Paula McNaughton, Bake Table: p_mcnaughton@yahoo.ca
Sheila Bjarnason, Silent Auction: sbjarn@gmail.com
Candice Rice, Reception/Tickets: Candicerice132@gmail.com

Kind Regards,
John Rowell, Festive Fair Chair: johnrowell99@gmail.com

Sunday Services on Zoom and YouTube  

We are hoping to be able to continue presenting Sunday services on Zoom, but we have lost a number of our Zoom operators.  Several people have stepped up to try to learn the setup, but there are a lot of moving parts, so we hope that you will be patient as we work out the kinks. 

And please, send us some feedback (to worship@uucm.ca) to let us know if you enjoy the services on Zoom or YouTube and would like them to continue.

Introducing DAYMAKER Coffee 

We will be serving DAYMAKER coffee at the after service coffee hour. Daymaker Coffee Roasters is a local craft roaster with three commitments:
1. Provide a fantastic cup of coffee 
2. Protect the environment through use of biodegradable packaging and other initiatives
3. Support local programing for those with Down’s Syndrome with a contribution of 3.2% of sales.

As coordinator of the After Service refreshments, I would love to hear your feedback about the coffee. This Sunday’s roast will be Clear Blue Morning Blend.

Looking for a fun volunteer experience at UCM? Each week, two volunteers from the congregation prepare and serve the post service refreshments. I am currently seeking more volunteers for this role. When there is a full roster of volunteers the time commitment is once every six weeks, staying between 45 minutes to an hour after service. We would love to have you join us.

Sheila Bjarnason

Friendly Greeters Needed!

I am looking for friendly individuals or family groups to be greeters for Sunday services. If you are interested in volunteering at UCM, this would be a great place to start. 

Sunday mornings not your thing? Greeters are also needed for other events at UCM throughout the year.

Please contact Judy Benger at judy.benscheu@sympatico.ca

Volunteer as Junior Youth Advisor or Youth Advisor

Do you enjoy having thoughtful discussions and learning about others in your community? If so, this is the role for you.
 
Commitment
- One spiritual exploration discussion per month, alongside another advisor, for an hour
- Availability either Friday evening around 6, Saturday afternoon around 2, or Sunday after the Time for All Ages
 
Required
- Comfort with Zoom
- Current Vulnerable Sector Check
 
For more details or to indicate interest, please contact Caitlyn at FLC@uucm.ca.

Our Whole Lives (OWL) Grades 4-6

Our Whole Lives is a progressive, comprehensive lifespan sexuality education program based on the principles of self-worth, sexual health, responsibility, justice, and inclusivity. OWL helps people of all ages make informed and responsible decisions about their sexual health and behaviour and affirms parents and caregivers as their children’s primary sexuality educators. The program provides accurate, developmentally appropriate information about a range of topics in six subject areas:

• Relationship
• Human development
• Personal skills
• Sexual behaviour
• Sexual health
• Society & culture

In Fall 2023 (September-October), the Unitarian Congregation in Mississauga is looking to run Grades 4-6 (elementary school) curricula. The facilitators will be Pamela Smith-Loeters and Caitlyn Seale, Family Life Coordinator. Times will be determined by attendees’ availability.

If you are interested in learning more about the OWL program or have a child in grades 4-6/ages 9-12, please reach out to Caitlyn at FLC@uucm.ca.

Internet Scams

Our.new.Interim Minister, the Rev. Rita Capezzi, will NEVER solicit gift cards from you through email. Please be mindful of scam emails with addresses similar to hers. And she would never text you to ask. Those scams are circulating, too.

Special Events Checklist
Effective June 1st, 2023

The.Board.is pleased to announce that effective June 1st, there is a new special events checklist to use.

Please submit this form at least four weeks before any specials event being planned at UCM. This will help ensure that there will be enough time for the appropriate Committees to support your event, and therefore, for things to go smoothly. We are asking that requests for floats and cheques prepared for guest speakers be made at least three weeks in advance (not a few days before an event - this is not enough time).

Copies are available through Committee Chairs, and hard copies are in the mail room as well.

Thanks!
Brenda Poole

Safe Step

In.the.spirit of healing and growing, we would like to highlight the Safe Steps policy created by the Unitarian Congregation in Mississauga. If you feel like you need to speak to anyone about situations that have happened, the Safe Steps policy can point you in the right direction.

The Reverend Mark Mosher DeWolfe Sermons

We.have.created a collection of webpages on our UCM website featuring The Reverend Mark Moshe DeWolfe sermons. This is such a wonderful opportunity to showcase his sermons as many Unitarians all through Canada and the States admire him. You will be able to listen, read and see some annotated or handwritten sermons in PDFs. We have approximately 50 sermons to upload so come back and check frequently. Enjoy!
Please visit www.uucm.ca/mark-dewolfe-sermons/
Brigitte Twomey

Donations to UCM

If.you.would.like to make a financial contribution electronically to UCM, please do so at: https://uucm.ca/donation/
or via bank transfer to payment@uucm.ca

Please indicate whether these funds are for the current year or next year’s Operating Budget or for some other purpose. Thank you for your generosity.

Has Your Contact Info Changed?

Have you moved recently? Changed your email address or phone number? Please remember to let Tisa in the UCM office know so that we can keep such information current: admin@uucm.ca

Youtube livestreaming of the Sunday Service 

If.you.have.trouble logging onto Zoom, you can watch the service on our youtube channel. To view a livestream you must subscribe to our UCM channel. The livestream begins around 10:25am and ends with the benediction. It is available for a short time on Sunday and then is removed. Clips from Rev. Fiona's reflections and prerecorded videos will be uploaded later in the week.

Don't forget to watch past services on the channel (every view helps our profile!) and send links to friends who might need this life sustaining community.